today is sunday and i'm tired as hell i had my kids over this weekend and all of them are sick my oldest boy hurt his finger and i didn't know what to do ,,he doesn't even remember if he hit it on something or smashed on a object... it's been like that for a while and since he lives with his dad (he doesn't give a shit) and that bothers me..but what can i do.? i had all my nephews and neices over yesterday and that totals 8 kids in my apartment  my brother and sister drop their kids of around 12pm and only told me for a little while .. but didn't pick them up till 6:30 ..what can i say or do where they won't get their feelings hurt .. it's just that they always drop them off when i have my kids and i get tired of that.. i never asked them to watch mine cause i know they r a headache... and believe me they just drop by unannounced..HELP  i need advice on this problem  but besides that every thing is fine.....my boyfriend's dad is coming next week and he needs me to help him out w/money ..? i don't know what to do it's alot of money 1300.00 to get him over here see he is illegal and i can do so much more with that amount of cash.. what pisses me off is that when i need him to help me w/my kids  it's like breaking a fingernail.. he has nothing to do w/them  and he knew i had them ,,he just can't get along w/them and that hurts so i'm thinking if he cant do that for me .why should i help him w/his dad...???  i need advice...

HEY EVERYONE SO IT'S ALMOST V/DAY WHAT  HAVE YOU GUYS PLANNED FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE..? I NEED IDEAS CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING THAT MY PARTNER WOULD LIKE BETTER YET I'M NOT THAT ROMANTIC..BUT THIS YEAR I WANT TO DO SOMETHING SPECIAL..

i guess there isn't anyone who is intrested in talk tto me ,, that's ok i know you guys have to know someone to speak with them .. so i do want to get to know new people i up for anything..